Nollywood actress and social media influencer, Monalisa Stephen revealed that many people send messages to her to sexualize her.
The plus-sized actress made this known in an interview with Punch.
She said, “I get very funny messages but it’s getting better now.
“Before, some people would ask me how much I would collect to show my body on video.
“They would say they want to see my nakedness and some would send a picture of their manhood to me and show their face.
“They are doing all this to sexualise me.
“There were even fat people who would send me messages that I should stop disgracing them.
“The same girls I am fighting for, I see them condemning me and saying bad things about me.”
The body positivity advocate also revealed that she was a very sexually active person who liked using sex toys.
According to her, “Sexual activities do not have to do with if one is big or small.
“There are lazy slim girls and there are lazy fat girls.
“I have met people who said that fat girls are flexible and crazy and some will say that some are lazy.
“So we cannot say ‘all fat girls are lazy or all slim girls are active’.
“Personally, I like sex and I give it my best whenever I am with my partner.
“I’m a very flexible person because of some of my bubbly activities and that might have helped my sexual life.
“I also like to try new things. But that does not mean I cannot do without sex. “I know where I can touch on my body that would get me aroused.
“I also have sex toys. I use them and they are very okay.
“I have to take care of my needs. I can also control the use of these toys; I don’t like it when things control me.
“My body is not an apology because I am perfect.
“God made me in a beautiful way, so I don’t have to apologize for it and fit into any beauty standard.”